So I’ve been hosting and running an Openfire XMPP Chat server and I have to say I’m really impressed by the fit and finish of it. It’s really well done, and the features are easily configured and cover pretty much anything you could want to do with it right out of the box, save for a skype transport, but that’s a whole different can of worms.
If your still unfamiliar with what Jabber or XMPP Chat is and if you’ve also never tried Google Talk (which is using the XMPP standards) It allows for (or in some cases like mine require) encryption, a much needed but so often overlooked requirement these days for instant messaging. I think the general problem is that the general user doesn’t really know that every conversation they have is going out in clear text. Which means that anyone, and I mean ANYONE could listen to those conversations you have on your msn connection late at night when you think that no one’s watching.
There’s only one fix for this. and really there’s a very rare application that does it well, or easy enough for the general public. Making this encryption stuff easy.
The first thing that I’ll say is if you just cant find it in yourself to use a new XMPP chat client of which I’ll run through below, your best bet is to use the Off-The-Record Messaging with pidgin which ranks 3rd in my bunch of XMPP ease of use, but probably second overall just being edged out by Digsby due to the email handling it does. The drawback to pretty much any of this though, is that to start an encrypted connection using OTR both sides have to have it, and believe me, it’s hard to get people to switch IM clients!!!
But alas for my chatting I have to give it to Pandion for being the easiest and best XMPP Chat client around. It’s easy to set all of the common things like status, away messages, join a group chat, go private, join a private chat, and you don’t have to remember anything like “public @ talk.twistedpair.mobi” (and no it’s not an email address!) because the bookmarks work just like you’d want them to. It joins using encryption by default, so there’s no futzing around with the settings, just set it to the server, create a user account if needed right there in the client, and chat away!

All the other clients seem to be taking the XMPP and putting it on the back burner, and that bothers me. Yes I’m aware that it’s the new guy to the block, but it’s the only one that’s offering any type of forward thinking! I’m sorry but I feel that the safety of the users of my product would be a bit of a priority to me. I’m also aware that there’s probably still more people using ICQ then there are taking up XMPP but COME ON PEOPLE! Everything you say is readable by anyone, does that not scare you! How many times have you given out personal info over IM? Passwords! Email’s! Phone Numbers! These thing’s matter!!!
But after all that, there’s a problem with Pandion as well … it hasn’t been developed since 2006. Shit. You just can’t win these days.
So that brings me back to Pidgin. I’ve been touting glee about this application for quite some time. You might remember it by the name gaim (loved it then too!). This has changed and so has the client, but only for the better! Faster, more Features (both at the same time! Hard to do!) it really is a well made client, but, it’s also a little confusing at first (not nearly as bad as miranda though, I’ve still not figured that damn thing out LOL!)
I’ve already made a walk-through on joining my XMPP Server on the “Live Chat” Page using pidgin and how to require encryption, and even using msn over the XMPP transport (which I also host), I’d still recommend installing the OTR plugin for those MSN chat’s.
Also like myself, it’s becoming harder and harder to find a server that DOESN’T LOG Packets!

I only log the last 3 messages that were said in the room, the rest are instantly deleted, never to be seen again. I do this only for the delay it takes some people to join the chat after being invited, and I hate to copy and paste conversations if I don’t have to.
If you still want more privacy I can offer that as well! Create your own room! Password Protect it! Make it moderated and force registration, I don’t mind! (So long as your not just camping, and from time to time join the public chat)
So let’s see those downloads! Grab an XMPP Client (choose from other’s lists here and here if you don’t like my suggestions) and start your own ENCRYPTED PRIVATE Chat’s! Be safe so that other’s might follow! Google’s doing it, it can’t be all bad right?